FAQs
If you have questions that our FAQ didn’t address, we are happy to answer any questions or concerns you have have. You can connect with us by emailing Lisa at lisa@loverecon.org or by calling 866-218-1716.
Love Recon’s Program Overview – FAQ’s
- What programs or services does Love Recon offer?
We offer the following programs:
Love Recon Intensive (4-Days) – for Couples
Love ·n· Life Enrichment Couples Retreat (2-Days) – for Couples
Life Recon Program – 3 Evenings & Saturday – Individuals, Singles, Divorcees & Couples
Love Recon Coaching – for Couples & Individuals
- Why are the Love Recon Programs more effective than similar programs?
Don’t expect to come and listen to lectures and speeches and fill up a notebook! All of our Love Recon Programs are interactive and experiential, and we employ a variety of learning styles, including:
- Visual – using pictures, images, and spatial understanding
- Aural – using sound and music
- Verbal – using words, both in speech and in writing
- Physical – using your body, hands and sense of touch
- Social – learning in groups or with other people
Your experience will also include solitary, one-on-one, small group, and large group configurations. Time will fly by as you engage in simulated real-life scenarios that will challenge and bring out the best in you.
The Love Recon programs are truly a transformative experience unlike any other!
- What makes Love Recon Programs different?
- No lectures, boring speeches, or taking notes!
- We’re Interactive – you will practice all the tools and skills on your specific relational needs with your partner as you are learning them.
- We’re Experiencial – We focus on engaging you through practical activities, group discussions, and real-world applications rather than traditional lecture-based instruction. “You are not changed by what you know. You are transformed by what you experience!”
- You’ll have the opportunity to address unresolved relational baggage, damage and other issues in a safe environment.
- We address unresolved personal baggage and damage! Why? Because unresolved personal baggage usually has a negative effect on your relationship. We find that addressing both relational and personal baggage and damage helps you achieve long-term results.
- Why should you attend one of our Love Recon Programs?
We all carry our past emotional baggage and damage with us through life unless we find a way to dump it effectively! Many try to rid themselves of it by the typical self-help methods of reading and/or watching videos, and/or listening to lectures at a typical seminar.
In the Love Recon Programs, you will actually put these principles into practice, walk through the healing and transformative drills, and experience change on the spot!
One of our basic tenets is, “You are not changed by what you know. You are transformed by what you experience!” - We are already separated or have filed for divorce. Can Love Recon Programs help us?
Yes, we have an 80% success rate in saving marriages that have already filed for divorce!
Even if you decided to proceed with the divorce after a Love Recon Program, you could do so in peace so that your life and future relationships could be healthy.
- Can Love Recon Programs help if my spouse has been unfaithful, angry or abusive?
Yes, these are common issues that we help couples address and deal with in our programs. If you and your spouse are willing to work hard and “go deep” to find the root causes of the behavior. The Love Recon is a safe place to be honest and real, even raw, for the purposes of healing.
We will help you address the issues, forgive, and begin to heal and move forward as individuals and then as a couple, if that is your choice. We can’t do the work for you, but we can give you the tools to rebuild your lives and relationship. Many couples have been able to do so.
- Is Love Recon Program for those seriously dating or engaged?
Yes! All of our programs are the best relationship work that you can do! And should you decide to get married, your honeymoon will last longer, and your marriage will be more solid than you can imagine!
- Who will be leading the sessions?
All Love Recon Programs are led by a team of experienced Directors, each with 17 to 30 years of expertise conducting life and relationship seminars. Every Director is a certified Master Life Coach. Additionally, well-trained and experienced facilitators, known as Guides, will work with you and your small group.
- How many people usually attend?
The number of attendees at an event doesn’t really matter. You’ll be working mostly in small groups, pairs, and individually, so whether there are 20 or 50 people, your experience will be similar.
Group experiences are particularly powerful and help facilitate growth and healing. Our alumni often share that knowing others are dealing with similar challenges and issues gave them the strength to let go of past hurts and find hope and freedom for their future.
- What should I wear?
Dress casual and comfortable. You will be sitting, standing, lying down on the floor, so dress accordingly. The room will be cool, so bring a sweater or jacket if you are cold natured.
- What do I need to bring with me?
Nothing. Everything you need for the program will be provided. You will receive a packet with a notebook, pen, marker and handouts.
- Are the Love Recon Programs Spiritual?
People of all faith backgrounds are invited to attend our Programs. No one, including the Directors or Guides, is permitted to force their beliefs on someone else, though participants are free to respectfully share their beliefs as they pertain to their lives.
Our goal is to help all people experience a healthy and fulfilled life in all areas, including spirituality. The Love Recon Program focuses primarily on addressing emotional baggage and damage currently affecting your life and relationships.
Spiritual damage is addressed toward the end of the program. We are respectful of all beliefs and those without a belief system.
- Can I miss a session?
All the Love Recon Programs are progressive in nature. Each drill and activity builds on the next, each day builds on the previous day. Missing one session will put you behind the group and keep you from getting the full experience and healing in your life and relationship. Attendees are required to attend all sessions of the program they are attending.
- Is LR spiritual?
People of all faith backgrounds are invited to attend Love Recon. No one, including the Directors or Guides, is permitted to push their beliefs on someone else, though participants are free to respectfully share their beliefs as it pertains to their life.
Our goal is to help all people experience a healthy and fulfilled life in all areas, including spiritual. The majority of the time in LR is spent addressing emotional baggage and damage that is currently affecting your life and relationships. Spiritual damage is addressed toward the end of the program.
- Does Love Recon Programs offer Scholarships?
Yes, we offer partial scholarships. Partial scholarships are available for those who need financial assistance.
There are a limited number available for each event. Please do not request a partial scholarship in an attempt to receive a discount. It will deprive those needing assistance to attend.
Partial scholarships are not available for travel, hotel, or meal expenses. They can only be applied toward the registration fee.
You may inquire about our scholarship process by calling 866-218-1716 or by emailing Lisa at lisa@loverecon.org
- What if I’m in Counseling?
Love Recon Programs work hand-in-hand with counselors and you in your healing and growth. Counselors frequently refer their clients to us because our program’s experiential nature is a catalyst for growth and healing.
We always encourage participants who are in counseling to report their experiences back to their counselors after they attend the program.
2-Day Love ·n· Life Enrichment Couples Retreat – FAQ’s
- What is the Love ·n· Life Enrichment Couples Retreat?
Love ·n· Life Enrichment is a 2-day, 18-hour relationship enrichment and enhancement retreat for couples. It is an interactive and experiential retreat that emphasizes the importance of nurturing love, respect, and appreciation for each other and maintaining a healthy balance between individual needs and the needs of the partnership.
During the experience, couples engage in various activities, discussions, and exercises that promote self-reflection, understanding, and growth. In addition to addressing specific issues, the Love ·n· Life Enrichment Couples Retreat focuses on strengthening the positive aspects of your relationship. Overall, this enrichment couples retreat helps couples invest in their relationship, deepen their connection, and acquire skills and knowledge to build a solid and fulfilling relationship.
- Who should attend the Love ·n· Life Enrichment Couples Retreat?
The Couple’s Retreat is designed to help couples with an “okay to good” relationship take their relationship to the next level! This retreat is for engaged couples, newlyweds, empty nesters, couples wanting to learn new skills and tools, and couples having common relationship issues.
You will address meaningful topics to help you discover what’s not working, enabling you to understand and fulfill what you desire and need from each other. Our safe environment allows for genuine interaction with your mate to open communication, reignite intimacy, and deepen your connection.
- What is the Love ·n· Life Enrichment Couples Retreat Schedule?
Couples are expected to attend every session of the program.
Our schedule is:
Friday – 9:30 am – 9:30 pm
Saturday – 9:30 am – 9:30 pm
Each day, attendees will have a 65-minute lunch and dinner break. Depending on the session, attendees will receive short breaks every 45 – 90 minutes throughout the program. Break times range from 5 to 15 minutes.
Life Recon – FAQ’s
- What is Life Recon?
Life Recon is a three-evening and Saturday, 17-hour journey of self-reflection and introspective examination—a ground-breaking personal development and growth event. It is interactive and experiential, helping to facilitate accelerated personal growth.
Through this transformative experience, you will attain clarity and find the answers you seek. The barriers and walls will crumble, granting you the freedom to break free from the past and embrace a renewed perspective and hope for the future. Attendees consistently rank this program among their top 5 most profound life and personal development experiences.
- Who should attend Life Recon?
Life Recon is for everyone who wants to grow and improve their life and relationships! It is for Couples, Individuals, Singles, and Divorcees.
If you are seeking to enhance your quality of life and well-being and expedite your personal development and growth, Life Recon is for you!
Participate in our cutting-edge and engaging seminar, where we delve into real-life situations encompassing all facets of your life.
- What is the Love ·n· Life Enrichment Couples Retreat Schedule?
Couples are expected to attend every session of the program.
Our schedule is:
Friday – 9:30 am – 9:30 pm
Saturday – 9:30 am – 9:30 pm
Each day, attendees will have a 65-minute lunch and dinner break. Depending on the session, attendees will receive short breaks every 45 – 90 minutes throughout the program. Break times range from 5 to 15 minutes.
- What is the Life Recon Schedule?
Attendees are expected to attend all evening and Saturday sessions of the program.
Our schedule is:
Wednesday – 6:00 pm – 9:30 pm
Thursday – 6:00 pm – 9:30 pm
Friday – 6:00 pm – 9:30 pm
Saturday – 9:30 am – 5:00 pm
Attendees will receive short breaks every 45 – 90 minutes throughout the program, depending on the session. Break times range from 5 to 15 minutes. Attendees will have 65-minute lunch break on Saturday.
Love Recon Coaching – FAQ’s
- Who do you coach?
We work with everyone who wants to grow and improve their life and relationships! We work with Couples, Individuals, Singles, Divorcees, and Engaged Couples.
- How long are the coaching sessions?
The average session lasts 50 – 60 minutes, except for the initial session, which may take up to 90 minutes to review your coaching needs.
- Do you offer online sessions and in-person sessions?
The majority of our clients choose online Zoom Sessions because they can save time while doing so from the comfort of their own homes. It also reduces the stress of arranging schedules, fighting traffic, and, in many cases, finding childcare.
We also offer in-person coaching in our Gainesville, GA office. In-person sessions must be scheduled in advance.
- Is the effectiveness different for In-Person vs Virtual Coaching?
It’s really up to the individual being coached.
Virtual coaching still allows coaches to connect with their clients and read body language. However, some clients prefer in-person sessions to avoid distractions due to their current home surroundings.
It’s completely up to the client and can be mixed based on scheduling needs.
- Will we deal with the past in our coaching sessions?
Unlike counseling, the coaching process does not examine the past. However, we look at how the past may be affecting your current situation and or your future goals and what mistakes or choices can help you obtain them.
- Will all sessions be the same?
Not at all. The coaching process implements questions, journaling, homework, and live coaching exercises. Your answers will dictate the flow and direction of the sessions, making every coaching session a unique and empowering experience.
- What if my mate will not attend sessions?
We believe that relationship healing starts with individual growth. We offer individual coaching sessions regardless of whether your mate can attend or if you are currently not in a relationship.
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